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RelaxedDC
13 hours ago1 min read
自足 | Insourcing Life
I had perfected the art of outsourcing life. Every aspect of daily living that could be delegated, was. One day, I cracked open a walnut...
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RelaxedDC
3 days ago1 min read
逍遥 | Choice
I've come to believe that the presence of choice - and actively exercising it - transforms how we experience life's demands. When we...
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RelaxedDC
4 days ago1 min read
情性 | Emotions
Growing up in an environment where suppressing emotions was encouraged and expected, I learned to equate stoicism with strength. This...
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RelaxedDC
6 days ago2 min read
随缘 | Flow
My life had been planned down to 30-minute increments. Then I met my partner. Raised in a sun-soaked place by a warm, loving family, he...
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RelaxedDC
Jan 62 min read
包容 | Acceptance
For years, I struggled to name my childhood experiences as trauma, believing that since I was never physically abused and always had food...
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RelaxedDC
Jan 52 min read
淡然 | Detachment
In my early twenties, the encounter with a high-quality makeup mirror in a luxury hotel revealed details of my skin I had never noticed -...
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RelaxedDC
Jan 41 min read
返朴 | Simplicity
My love affair with Portuguese cuisine began alongside my growing affection for my partner's parents. They express their love through...
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RelaxedDC
Dec 26, 20242 min read
知己 | Kindred Spirits
In Chinese, the beautiful word for kindred spirit - 知己 - literally means "knowing myself." For many years, I was still in pursuit of...
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RelaxedDC
Dec 22, 20241 min read
无为|Non-Forcing
Last Saturday morning, I caught myself in an old pattern. Four painters arrived early at my property, and upon overhearing their wish for...
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RelaxedDC
Dec 21, 20242 min read
初心 | Beginner's Mind
I've grown wary of expertise. Not of deep knowledge or mastery, but of the mindset that often accompanies it – the subtle closure of...
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RelaxedDC
Dec 20, 20241 min read
和 | Harmony
Campfires seem to awaken our most primal memories of connection and community, reaching back through countless generations who gathered...
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RelaxedDC
Dec 18, 20242 min read
放下|Letting Go
My relationship with corporate attire began in 2011 when I landed my first investment role. My natural inclination toward comfort quickly...
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